What happens when life takes everything from you—and you’re forced to decide who you become next?In this deeply moving conversation, Mark Divine sits down with Cody Lakefield, co-founder of Long Ship Men and Look Health, to explore the intersection of trauma, healing, proactive health, brotherhood, and purpose.Cody shares his journey through profound personal loss, responsibility, and suffering—and how those experiences led him to build systems that help men reclaim ownership of their health, their inner lives, and their relationships with other men.From personalized biomarker testing and preventative health… to grief, PTSD, faith, and the power of men rowing together… this episode is about moving from survival to meaning.If you’re a leader, father, entrepreneur, or man navigating pressure in silence, this conversation offers a different path forward—one rooted in awareness, courage, and community.In this episode, you’ll discover:Why proactive health matters more than “sick care”How understanding biomarkers gives you agency over your bodyWhy trauma doesn’t resolve itself through willpower aloneThe danger of carrying everything in isolationHow brotherhood accelerates healing and resilienceWhy purpose is often forged through suffering, not comfortHow to move from surviving life to living it intentionallyJoin The Unbeatable Leader Challenge - January 13thThe Unbeatable Leader Challenge is back starting January 13th, this time we're making it FREE to join on this training. Kick off 2026 with a growth mindset to win the winner war, achieve front-sight focus, and build an unbeatable team in 2026. → https://www.unbeatableleader.comUnlock your full potential and lead with courage, clarity, and purpose—join The Unbeatable Tribe and become truly unbeatable in life and leadership.Join for free for 7 days: The Unbeatable Tribe → https://www.skool.com/unbeatable-mastery-tribe/aboutBUBS NATURALS - Use Code Unbeatable for 20% OFFI use BUBS Naturals daily for focus, recovery, and hydration—all built on a mission to honor a fallen Navy SEAL. Use code UNBEATABLE for 20% off any one time purchase or subscription at bubsnaturals.comCody Links:Website: https://www.lookhealth.com/, https://www.longshipmen.com/Book: https://a.co/d/2iDuYdy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/raven_cody7/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cody-lakevold-458b311b/?originalSubdomain=caX: https://x.com/CodyLakevoldMark Links: Website: https://markdivine.comThe Unbeatable Tribe: https://www.skool.com/unbeatable-mastery-tribe/aboutDivine Inspiration Newsletter: https://markdivine.com/newsletterYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@markdivineofficial/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/markdivineofficialLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/markdivine/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/markdivineofficial/Subscribe to https://www.youtube.com/@markdivineofficial for more inspiring conversations on leadership, growth, and impact.Rate and review the show to help us reach more listeners.Share your thoughts and takeaways in the comments!#MarkDivine #CodyLakefield #MensWork #MentalHealth #TraumaHealing #PreventativeHealth #Biomarkers #Brotherhood #PurposeDrivenLife #LeadershipDevelopment #Resilience #UnbeatableMind #LongShipTimestamps:00:00 Introduction to the Biomarkers, LookHealth, Longship Men00:38 Mark Divine's Leadership Challenge01:28 Welcome to the Mark Divine Show01:54 Introducing Cody Lakevold02:52 Cody's Health Ventures04:30 Challenges in Healthcare Access06:39 Cody's Personal Journey Begins12:38 Family Struggles and Personal Loss20:32 Coping with Family Tragedies40:31 Struggling with Nightmares and Suicidal Thoughts42:16 Turning to Alcohol for Relief43:41 Seeking Therapy and Finding Hope45:35 Discovering MDMA Therapy46:16 A Life-Changing MDMA Session53:04 Rebuilding Life and Relationships54:12 Creating Raven Lake Investments01:00:05 The Birth of Long Ship01:11:24 The Vision for Long Ship01:21:03 Conclusion and Future PlansSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.