<description>&lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;Every day, men are dying. Not in some abstract, far-off statistic, but in your town, in your circles, maybe in your own family. They're isolated, disconnected, and being told the very things that make them men are the things that need to be fixed. Meanwhile, the culture cheers on the idea that hating men is a sign of strength, the family courts treat fathers as optional, and any space built exclusively for men gets torn down before it can do any good. Somewhere along the way, we decided men were the problem.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;My guest today says that's a lie, and he's got the platform to prove it. &lt;a href= "https://www.instagram.com/thetinmen/?hl=en"&gt;George from The TinMen&lt;/a&gt; joins me to talk about why men are checking out, dropping out of therapy, and ending their own lives at staggering rates, and what it actually takes to turn that around. This isn't about coddling men or excusing them. It's about telling the truth: men aren't broken, the system around them is. We get into male friendship, the war on masculinity, the family court system, and why "man up" might be the worst advice we ever gave.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;SHOW HIGHLIGHTS&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;00:00 Welcome to The Tin Men &amp; Men's Emotional Expression&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;03:09 Are Men Talking—Or Are We Failing to Listen?&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;05:17 Why Therapy Isn't Working for Many Men&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;07:45 The Power of Shoulder-to-Shoulder Conversations&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;08:29 Grief, Brotherhood &amp; Opening Up&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;11:02 Normal Responses to Difficult Experiences&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;14:00 Men as Individuals, Not Categories&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;16:53 When Talking Alone Isn't Enough&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;21:59 Why Society Pushes Back on Men's Issues&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;24:18 Boys, Education &amp; Cultural Messaging&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;28:33 Building Better Men in Everyday Life&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;34:18 Health, Education &amp; Structural Change&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;38:43 How Boys Learn Differently&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;43:36 Misunderstanding Boys' Behavior&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;46:15 Grassroots Solutions vs Government Solutions&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;48:24 Why Men Need Male Spaces&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;52:04 The Loss of Men-Only Communities&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;54:47 Brotherhood, Belonging &amp; Better Outcomes&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;59:28 Final Thoughts &amp; Where to Find The Tin Men&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;Battle Planners: &lt;a href= "https://store.orderofman.com/products/order-of-man-annual-battle-planner"&gt; Pick yours up today!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;Order Ryan's new book, &lt;a href= "https://www.amazon.com/Masculinity-Manifesto-Establishes-Influence-Credibility/dp/1684513316/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&amp;qid=1665048672&amp;sr=8-1"&gt; The Masculinity Manifesto&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;For more information on the &lt;a href= "https://orderofman.link/iron-council"&gt;Iron Council brotherhood&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, &lt;a href= "https://orderofman.link/battle-ready-0"&gt;30 Days to Battle Ready&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description>

Order of Man

Ryan Michler

GEORGE from TheTinMen | Why Men Are Killing Themselves

JUN 23, 202670 MIN
Order of Man

GEORGE from TheTinMen | Why Men Are Killing Themselves

JUN 23, 202670 MIN

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Every day, men are dying. Not in some abstract, far-off statistic, but in your town, in your circles, maybe in your own family. They're isolated, disconnected, and being told the very things that make them men are the things that need to be fixed. Meanwhile, the culture cheers on the idea that hating men is a sign of strength, the family courts treat fathers as optional, and any space built exclusively for men gets torn down before it can do any good. Somewhere along the way, we decided men were the problem. My guest today says that's a lie, and he's got the platform to prove it. George from The TinMen joins me to talk about why men are checking out, dropping out of therapy, and ending their own lives at staggering rates, and what it actually takes to turn that around. This isn't about coddling men or excusing them. It's about telling the truth: men aren't broken, the system around them is. We get into male friendship, the war on masculinity, the family court system, and why "man up" might be the worst advice we ever gave. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Welcome to The Tin Men & Men's Emotional Expression 03:09 Are Men Talking—Or Are We Failing to Listen? 05:17 Why Therapy Isn't Working for Many Men 07:45 The Power of Shoulder-to-Shoulder Conversations 08:29 Grief, Brotherhood & Opening Up 11:02 Normal Responses to Difficult Experiences 14:00 Men as Individuals, Not Categories 16:53 When Talking Alone Isn't Enough 21:59 Why Society Pushes Back on Men's Issues 24:18 Boys, Education & Cultural Messaging 28:33 Building Better Men in Everyday Life 34:18 Health, Education & Structural Change 38:43 How Boys Learn Differently 43:36 Misunderstanding Boys' Behavior 46:15 Grassroots Solutions vs Government Solutions 48:24 Why Men Need Male Spaces 52:04 The Loss of Men-Only Communities 54:47 Brotherhood, Belonging & Better Outcomes 59:28 Final Thoughts & Where to Find The Tin Men Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready