Ep 33 Why Do I Feel Less Safe When I Have More Money?

Welcome back to Jane's transformation journey from hustle and burnout to listening to her inner wisdom. This episode starts with good news: Jane's creativity has been flowing since our last session. Then we go somewhere harder, to a belief Jane has carried since childhood that money isn't safe. We trace it back to watching her parents' very different reactions to money coming in. What we find underneath surprises her. There’s a second belief about losing her friends if she doesn't struggle with money, and a pattern where she's been playing out both of her parents' roles around the money she makes and spends. By the end of the episode, Jane gets to rewrite the rules and realize she can be loving and loved with money. Listen to how we rewrite Jane’s old survival rules with tapping. And maybe tap along with us to change your own money blocks. Let's tap! —Nancy P.S. If Jane's money story sounds familiar, and you'd love support untangling your own, let’s talk. Learn more here: https://unblockresults.com/contact/ TIMESTAMPS 0:00 Overview and Recap Of Earlier Results 9:06 Discovering and Rating Potential Blocks For Today's Tapping 13:30 Tapping On It's Not Safe To Have A Lot Of Money 24:22 Tapping On If I Have A Lot Of Money I Won't Have Any Friends 48:56 Big Reveal: Jane Has Been Playing Out Both Parents' Roles On Money 52:07 Final Results For This Session IN THIS EPISODE: Q: Why do I have trouble holding on to money? A: Some people have trouble holding on to money because they internalize rules and fears, especially in childhood, that subconsciously encourage them to spend or lose any money they receive somehow. A few examples are "Money isn't safe," "I'm not good with money," and "I can't have money AND love." Finding and releasing the specific rules and fears in your subconscious will allow you to follow your conscious decisions to save and invest your money. Q: Am I doomed to repeat the way my parents' handled money? A: No no no. While many people find themselves thinking and acting the same way their parents did around money when they were growing up, you can change that pattern. One powerful way to do that is to surface the rules, beliefs and fears around money in your subconscious and then release them with EFT / Tapping. Then it will be much easier to make and follow conscious choices to handle money the way you want to. Consistently. New to EFT? Here’s the short version. EFT, often called Tapping, is a simple but powerful technique that uses gentle tapping on specific acupressure points to calm your nervous system and create rapid shifts in the brain. (Yes, the science backs this up: cortisol levels drop, the amygdala downregulates, and you feel safer.) People around the world use EFT for everything from emotional healing and chronic pain to confidence, performance, and big goals. Here on EFT Breakthroughs we use Tapping a little differently. We go after the rules, beliefs, and fears running in your subconscious—so taking action feels easier, cleaner, and faster. Start here: Get my free Procrastination Breakthrough Kit to learn the basics of Tapping and lower your resistance to action: https://unblockresults.com/get-nancys-procrastination-breakthrough-kit/ Don’t miss an episode: Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLX_S-75lHx8XxsR5tgnk3elfQTtrITFw2 Listen weekly on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/eft-breakthroughs/id1874039628 Let’s stay connected: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eftbreakthroughs/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/UnblockResults/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/unblock-results/ Website: http://unblockresults.com