Good Girls Talk About Sex

Leah Carey

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Good Girls Talk About Sex features the kinds of conversations you usually only have with your best girlfriend late at night over a bottle of wine. Sex and Intimacy Coach Leah Carey talks with women — including all people who were raised as little girls plus transgender women — about the realities of being a sexual person in today's world. The conversations are warm, welcoming, and non-judgmental, featuring people of all sizes, shapes, ages, races, orientations, relationship structures, and more. Sometimes you'll hear your own experiences reflected back to you and realize you're not alone. Other times, you'll hear stories very different from your own that broaden your ideas about what is "normal" and introduce you to exciting new possibilities. Conversations may be explicit, but are never salacious or exploitative.

Recent Episodes

NOV 10, 2026
I want you to be more dominant - Julia
Julia shares an awkward role-playing attempt, the pleasure of surrendering control and entering subspace, and deeply trusting sexual relationships. TOPICS COVERED: Pretending to enjoy a sexual experience to avoid hurting a partner's feelings Laughter during sex, including the difference between playful laughter and embarrassment Negotiating sexual fantasies and finding ways to make role-playing enjoyable for both partners Communication, preparation, and consent when exploring sexual fantasies Acknowledging positive experiences in a relationship that later turned bad Leah's experience with role-playing and feeling unsettled by a partner's convincing performance Adopting different personas during sex versus everyday life Julia's first experience entering subspace during BDSM play How subspace quieted Julia's ADHD brain Trust and emotional safety in dominant/submissive dynamics Topping from the bottom Christian BDSM and the relationship between submission, patriarchy, and power Finding fantasies that feel comfortable and authentic LINKS: Julia on TikTok Unlocking the Secret Meaning of "You're Topping from the Bottom" in Christian Relationships Spin the wheel: https://xoleahcarey.substack.com/p/podcast-questions Be a guest: https://www.leahcarey.com/guest Archive of GGTAS episodes from 2019 to 2024: https://www.goodgirlstalk.com Coaching with Leah: https://www.leahcarey.com 🎡 Want to submit a question for potential inclusion on the wheel? Drop a comment at Substack!
33 MIN
NOV 3, 2026
Nana - Younger men are less patriarchal
Nana lives in Ghana and talks about dating younger men, defying patriarchy, and her vision for bringing the African tradition of sexual aunties into modern sex education. TOPICS COVERED: Leah getting involved with a married man at age 21 Nana's recent sexual experience with a man 20 years younger Patriarchy and why Nana prefers dating younger men Age-gap relationships Dating and marriage in Ghana The challenge of finding partners who practice honest, ethical non-monogamy When partners dismiss or question clearly stated relationship boundaries How sexual relationships can be different from romantic partnerships Homophobia in Ghana and finding queer women to date How Nana meets people in Ghana and when she's traveling The traditional practice of ssenga (sexual aunties) in Uganda Creating modern versions of sexual aunties and uncles to support young people's sexual education LINKS: The Sex Lives of African Women — Nana's book Seeking Sexual Freedom — Nana's book The African Pleasure Fairy Godmother — Nana's Substack publication @dfordarkoa - Nana's Instagram account — Podcast at Substack: https://xoleahcarey.substack.com/t/podcast Spin the wheel: https://xoleahcarey.substack.com/p/podcast-questions Be a guest: https://www.leahcarey.com/guest Archive of GGTAS episodes from 2019 to 2024: https://www.goodgirlstalk.com Coaching with Leah: https://www.leahcarey.com 🎡 Want to submit a question for potential inclusion on the wheel? Drop a comment at Substack!
34 MIN