I want you to be more dominant - Julia

Julia shares an awkward role-playing attempt, the pleasure of surrendering control and entering subspace, and deeply trusting sexual relationships. TOPICS COVERED: Pretending to enjoy a sexual experience to avoid hurting a partner's feelings Laughter during sex, including the difference between playful laughter and embarrassment Negotiating sexual fantasies and finding ways to make role-playing enjoyable for both partners Communication, preparation, and consent when exploring sexual fantasies Acknowledging positive experiences in a relationship that later turned bad Leah's experience with role-playing and feeling unsettled by a partner's convincing performance Adopting different personas during sex versus everyday life Julia's first experience entering subspace during BDSM play How subspace quieted Julia's ADHD brain Trust and emotional safety in dominant/submissive dynamics Topping from the bottom Christian BDSM and the relationship between submission, patriarchy, and power Finding fantasies that feel comfortable and authentic LINKS: Julia on TikTok Unlocking the Secret Meaning of "You're Topping from the Bottom" in Christian Relationships Spin the wheel: https://xoleahcarey.substack.com/p/podcast-questions Be a guest: https://www.leahcarey.com/guest Archive of GGTAS episodes from 2019 to 2024: https://www.goodgirlstalk.com Coaching with Leah: https://www.leahcarey.com 🎡 Want to submit a question for potential inclusion on the wheel? Drop a comment at Substack!