290. Listener Confession: "My Ex Boyfriend Told Me I Have A Wide Vagina..."

“My ex told me I have a wide vagina. Am I normal?” That’s this week’s listener confession. And after six years of reading listener messages, we can tell you with certainty that some version of “is my vagina normal?” is the single most-asked question we get. SO HERE WE GO. We dive into the medical facts (we looked them up), the biology, and the much bigger issue we need to be addressing: why men go straight for comments about our bodies when they want to hurt us and how to stop letting it get to you. We Cover: The medical truth on “wide set vaginas” (spoiler: Mean Girls lied, it isn’t a real term, and here’s what Dr. Jennifer Wider actually says about vaginal diameter) Why your physiology (aka AROUSAL) might be the reason he felt “less friction”  The reason insulting a woman’s body is a shitty man's go to when they want to hurt you The reframe every vagina owner NEEDS to internalize... your vagina is normal, your labia are normal, your taste and smell are normal, all of it What to actually do if there IS a real size mismatch in a relationship (there are a thousand solutions, we cover a few) AND why even if you DO have a wide vagina it literally doesn't matter, and you are perfection personified  Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @honeydewmepodcast. If you're in the Portland, OR area don't forget to join our "Portland, OR Girlies" group chat in our Instagram bio! Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out Vinted: https://www.vinted.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy