RecoverU | Betrayal Trauma, Betrayal Recovery, Porn Addiction Recovery, Relationships, Infidelity

In today's episode Kylene discusses communication patterns that push couples apart and keep them activated and in pain vs relational and communication patterns that help couples lean in towards each other with understanding and connection even through pain. Check out the What's NEXT course for newly betrayed partners: https://recoverucoaching.com/whats-next-course If would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql Learn more at www.RecoverUcoaching.com Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8 Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2 Resources for Healing: https://recoverucoaching.com/resources

In today's episode, Kylene discusses trauma, what it is, how it impacts the brain and body in a variety of ways, and offers the reminder that while our symptoms and pain can be overwhelming, healing is possible. found this referral link to HungryRoot after we recorded - check it out for easy meals! https://www.hungryroot.com/r/CW7WWBUI Link to Kylene's personal dispensary where you can find supplements she listed with the brands she likes: https://us.fullscript.com/s/kylenet/shop/plans/TXVsdGlQYXRpZW50UGxhbi0xMTI2NjM= Check out the What's NEXT course for newly betrayed partners: https://recoverucoaching.com/whats-next-course If would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql Learn more at www.RecoverUcoaching.com Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8 Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2 Resources for Healing: https://recoverucoaching.com/resources

In this episode, Kylene and Patrick explore five essential things a betrayed partner needs from their spouse in order to truly heal. They unpack each element with depth and honesty, including: Taking full responsibility without minimizing or making excuses Creating safety—especially by addressing power dynamics and physical presence Making her feel seen, chosen, and prioritized Recovering for yourself, not just to save the relationship Demonstrating long-term consistency and follow-through Patrick shares personal insights and real-life experiences as they walk through each step. Together, they explain why these actions are not just helpful—but crucial— after betrayal. If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8 Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2 For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune On IG: @KyleneTerhune

This week we share some (random) reflections on recovery and our experience going to our first conference related to betrayal and addiction recovery! Some topics we discuss: What it felt like to be in a place full of individuals sharing a similar journey Why it's important to challenge what you believe and listen to people viewed as teachers or leaders with discernment Some helpful perspectives/definitions of recovery terms like boundaries, safety and anxiety We hope this episode is encouraging! We don't have a link for next year's summit, but we encourage you to follow pure desire on socials, and subscribe to their weekly podcast! www.puredesire.org Check out the What's NEXT course for newly betrayed partners: https://recoverucoaching.com/whats-next-course If would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql Learn more at www.RecoverUcoaching.com Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8 Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2 Resources for Healing: https://recoverucoaching.com/resources

Today Kylene answers a listener's submitted question about what to do if the betrayer won't go to a support group? Books mentioned: How to Untie a Balloon: (book around dealing with pressure) https://amzn.to/471SJYw Nothing to Fear: (book about end of life choices) https://amzn.to/3TKZnzk The Big Relief: (book about grace) https://amzn.to/4ALa9GB Anatomy of the Soul: (emotions, neuroscience and faith) https://amzn.to/4AVRKaa Help her Heal: (understanding partner betrayal trauma) https://amzn.to/4hHOwxQ Unwanted:(importance of connecting the WHY underneath the behaviors) https://amzn.to/4jpqlaj Altogether YOU:(book about internal family systems/parts work) https://amzn.to/4xYRmop Emotionally Healthy Spirituality: (combination of emotional and spiritual maturity) https://amzn.to/3U4Kfgi Unbroken - The trauma response is never wrong: https://amzn.to/3Vy7qjt Biology of Trauma: https://amzn.to/4dWlyJD *As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. Podcast episode mentioned - Ep 90 Sobriety vs Recovery: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recoveru-betrayal-trauma-betrayal-recovery-porn-addiction/id1674653111?i=1000684064277 Check out the What's NEXT course for newly betrayed partners: https://recoverucoaching.com/whats-next-course If would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql Learn more at www.RecoverUcoaching.com Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8 Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2 Resources for Healing: https://recoverucoaching.com/resources