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Welcome to the Same D Different B podcast where we help women navigate an increasingly challenging dating environment by providing an experienced, male perspective. My goal is simple - to provide honest insights, clear up misunderstandings and create more meaningful connections between women and men. In a world where social media often amplifies division, confusion and conflict between the sexes, this podcast aims to bring people together. Whether you're dating, in a relationship, or simply trying to better understand the opposite sex, you're in the right place.

Recent Episodes

The Situationship Dilemma: Stay or Walk Away?

Can we help Aniya turn her situationship into a real relationship? The term “Situationship” may be annoying and cheesy, but one thing it isn't is overused. In today's dating world, the lines between casual dating and committed relationships have never been blurrier. Here's a simple rule of thumb: If you've been seeing someone for two or three months and haven't had "The Conversation," chances are you're in a Situationship. But this episode isn't about calling anyone out or passing...

8 MIN

The Sexy Photo Paradox: Getting Matches vs. Finding Love

In this episode, we revisit the topic behind my most popular episode yet: Can a woman succeed in dating without sexy app photos? Maybe the answer is more nuanced than I initially suggested. The solution may be a conditional approach that balances the need to attract with the need to filter. Join me as we explore the delicate balance between making a great first impression and attracting the right people in the ever evolving world of dating apps. Enjoyed the episode? Follow the podcast and joi...

10 MIN

38 and Single: Dating With a Deadline

Alegria is 38, single, and wants to get married and have children. Her situation is increasingly common as more women spend their 30s focused on their careers, the rising cost of living makes starting a family more challenging, dating apps have changed how people meet and commit, and social expectations around relationships continue to evolve. So how does someone like Alegria navigate dating when the things she wants most, marriage and children, feel increasingly time sensitive? In this episo...

9 MIN

The Dating App Diet

Maybe it’s time to stop blaming the dating apps and start taking a little more accountability for how we use them. Is it possible to self govern our dating app behavior and actually get better results while experiencing less burnout? I believe the answer is a resounding yes! A big part of the problem may be that we’re simply trying to do too much. Too many conversations, too many matches, too many people competing for our attention. And instead of creating more opportunities, it can overwhelm...

11 MIN

The Filtering Challenge: Three Dates That Could Change Everything

Would you go on three dates with three men who don’t fit your usual filters or standards if it could ultimately lead you to the right man? What if, instead of immediately swiping left, you challenged yourself to step outside your normal dating patterns and see what you might learn? Maybe you discover qualities you never realized you valued. Maybe you confirm exactly why certain things are nonnegotiable. Either way, you learn something. We already make exceptions when someone is incredibly att...

10 MIN