<description>&lt;p&gt;With the holiday season in full swing, we all know that the celebratory joy can also come with the celebratory stress of accommodating so many people. While pleasing others can be a normal part of life, it can quickly turn into appeasing others at your own expense. That's why Mory and Melissa are revisiting an old episode that takes a long, hard look at people pleasing. We celebrate compassion as a culture, we speak highly of empathy, and we adore sacrifice - but we usually don’t talk about the times we care for others out of a need to feel safe or valuable. Fawning is just as much a trauma response as ‘fight or flight,’ and like all trauma responses, fawning should be honored and understood for what it is: our imperfect and natural capacity to process difficulty. Tune in for some serious (and not so serious) stories from the front lines of people pleasing, clarity on reconnecting to your own desire, and a convincing argument for why you should get a bean of your own.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;For All Things Signal:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;To submit questions for future Signal episodes:&lt;a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://forms.gle/ZhSKGveWox33GvFq6"&gt;https://forms.gle/ZhSKGveWox33GvFq6&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Follow Signal on Instagram @signalwithmoryandmelissa&lt;a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/signalwithmoryandmelissa"&gt;https://www.instagram.com/signalwithmoryandmelissa&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Follow Mory on Instagram @moryfontanez&lt;a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/moryfontanez/"&gt;https://www.instagram.com/moryfontanez/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;Preorder Mory's Book: “Higher Self: Reclaiming The Power of Your Intuition" using the links below!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Amazon:&lt;a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/0063309998/keywords=self%2Bhelp%2Bbooks?tag=harpercollinsus-20"&gt;https://www.amazon.com/dp/0063309998/keywords=self%2Bhelp%2Bbooks?tag=harpercollinsus-20&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Target:&lt;a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.target.com/p/higher-self-by-mory-fontanez-hardcover/-/A-93091557#lnk=sametab"&gt;https://www.target.com/p/higher-self-by-mory-fontanez-hardcover/-/A-93091557#lnk=sametab&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Walmart:&lt;a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.walmart.com/ip/Higher-Self-Reclaiming-the-Power-of-Your-Intuition-Hardcover-9780063309999/8883157124?classType=REGULAR&amp;amp;from=/search"&gt;https://www.walmart.com/ip/Higher-Self-Reclaiming-the-Power-of-Your-Intuition-Hardcover-9780063309999/8883157124?classType=REGULAR&amp;amp;from=/search&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;</description>

Signal with Mory & Melissa

Mory Fontanez

People Pleasing- Why we put the happiness of others before our own

DEC 4, 202458 MIN
Signal with Mory & Melissa

People Pleasing- Why we put the happiness of others before our own

DEC 4, 202458 MIN

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<p>With the holiday season in full swing, we all know that the celebratory joy can also come with the celebratory stress of accommodating so many people. While pleasing others can be a normal part of life, it can quickly turn into appeasing others at your own expense. That's why Mory and Melissa are revisiting an old episode that takes a long, hard look at people pleasing. We celebrate compassion as a culture, we speak highly of empathy, and we adore sacrifice - but we usually don’t talk about the times we care for others out of a need to feel safe or valuable. Fawning is just as much a trauma response as ‘fight or flight,’ and like all trauma responses, fawning should be honored and understood for what it is: our imperfect and natural capacity to process difficulty. Tune in for some serious (and not so serious) stories from the front lines of people pleasing, clarity on reconnecting to your own desire, and a convincing argument for why you should get a bean of your own.</p><p></p><p>For All Things Signal:</p><ul><li>To submit questions for future Signal episodes:<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://forms.gle/ZhSKGveWox33GvFq6">https://forms.gle/ZhSKGveWox33GvFq6</a></li><li>Follow Signal on Instagram @signalwithmoryandmelissa<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/signalwithmoryandmelissa">https://www.instagram.com/signalwithmoryandmelissa</a></li><li>Follow Mory on Instagram @moryfontanez<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/moryfontanez/">https://www.instagram.com/moryfontanez/</a></li></ul><p>Preorder Mory's Book: “Higher Self: Reclaiming The Power of Your Intuition" using the links below!</p><ul><li>Amazon:<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/0063309998/keywords=self%2Bhelp%2Bbooks?tag=harpercollinsus-20">https://www.amazon.com/dp/0063309998/keywords=self%2Bhelp%2Bbooks?tag=harpercollinsus-20</a></li><li>Target:<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.target.com/p/higher-self-by-mory-fontanez-hardcover/-/A-93091557#lnk=sametab">https://www.target.com/p/higher-self-by-mory-fontanez-hardcover/-/A-93091557#lnk=sametab</a></li><li>Walmart:<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.walmart.com/ip/Higher-Self-Reclaiming-the-Power-of-Your-Intuition-Hardcover-9780063309999/8883157124?classType=REGULAR&amp;from=/search">https://www.walmart.com/ip/Higher-Self-Reclaiming-the-Power-of-Your-Intuition-Hardcover-9780063309999/8883157124?classType=REGULAR&amp;from=/search</a></li></ul>