232: Why Men Won’t Open Up to Their Partners W/ Tom Stroud

Love Is Blind UK star ⁠Tom Stroud⁠ sets the record straight on his reality TV villain edit, including why Netflix made him reshoot the altar scene. He shares how therapy after the show led him to build ⁠Shoulder to Shoulder⁠, a men’s community tackling the male loneliness epidemic, and he and Sabrina get honest about men’s mental health, why so many men avoid therapy, and why shaming men for their feelings only pushes them further away. Tom also opens up about his father wound, losing his dad before they could reconcile, and what his relationship has taught him about conflict, anger, and emotional safety. Plus: why men need male friendships, red flags that look like green flags, scheduling sex in a busy relationship, and what women and men need to understand about each other. Come see me on tour! ⁠https://sabrinazohar.com/tour⁠ Order Sabrina's book,⁠⁠⁠ "Why Am I Like This?"⁠⁠ Take the new and improved dating quiz! ⁠⁠sabrinazohar.com/quiz⁠⁠ If you’re ready to slow down, trust your instincts, and break your old dating patterns, the Healthy Relationship Foundations Course walks you through it step-by-step ⁠⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠⁠ Product of the week! ⁠https://amzn.to/4v1eHW⁠j Get Ad free ⁠⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠⁠ Watch on Spotify. Spotify subscribers get fewer ads on my video. Want to work with Sabrina? ⁠⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠⁠ Get merch for The Sabrina Zohar Show ⁠⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠⁠ Don't forget to follow ⁠⁠⁠Sabrina⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠The Sabrina Zohar Show⁠⁠⁠ on Instagram and ⁠⁠⁠Sabrina ⁠⁠⁠on TikTok! Video now available on ⁠⁠⁠YOUTUBE!⁠⁠⁠ Support the show by supporting our sponsors: Our listeners get a FREE MONTH of Primal Queen plus FOUR FREE GIFTS at ⁠https://primalqueen.com/SABRINA⁠ Thanks to Strawberry.me for sponsoring this video. Get matched with a professional career coach and get 50%off your first coaching session: ⁠https://www.strawberry.me/sabrina⁠ Chapters: 00:00 Love Is Blind UK Altar Truth 05:28 Reality TV Hate and Mental Health 11:08 Equal Partnership in Relationships 16:00 Fear of Rejection and People Pleasing 21:09 Why Men Won’t Go to Therapy 27:26 Male Loneliness Epidemic Explained 34:22 Father Wound and Unspoken Regret 39:15 Why Men Hide Their Emotions 43:19 How to Make Men Feel Emotionally Safe 48:59 Red Flags That Look Like Green Flags Disclaimer: The Sabrina Zohar Show, formerly known as Do The Work, is not affiliated with A.Z & associates LLC in any capacity. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices