The Good Girl Unleashed with Monique Carmela
The Good Girl Unleashed with Monique Carmela

The Good Girl Unleashed with Monique Carmela

Monique Carmela

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Connect to your authenticity, truth, and personal power and create the life and relationships you deeply desire! Monique Carmela, Trauma-Informed Self-Expression & Relationship Coach. I am deeply passionate about supporting others to come home to their authentic selves, and fullest expression, and thrive in their relationships. I support my clients and students to become aware of what’s holding them back and to heal and integrate on a very deep level, so they can embody their authentic selves, reclaim their personal power, liberate their expression, and experience deep love and connection in their relationships. Over the past 4 years, I have worked with thousands of people in person and online through energetic transmissions, intuitive coaching, and integrative embodiment journeys. This podcast is my way of serving our community, I believe by supporting women to come home to themselves and prioritize their needs, desires, and boundaries, the entire world will transform. The ripple effect of women coming into their authenticity, power, and truth will bring more love, connection, abundance, and harmony to all, our brothers, sisters, children, and the collective. You will often hear me say, “You are the one you are doing life with”, this serves as a reminder that tending to your relationship with yourself is the foundation for thriving in all relationships. This will allow you to show up more fully in your life and for those you love. My mission is to remind you of how powerful you truly are, and how worthy you have always been, and to support you in experiencing true freedom, abundance, and fulfillment in all areas of your life. With this mission in mind, The Good Girl Unleashed Podcast was born. The name resembles the journey from years, decades, and even generations of suppression, shaming, and trying to be the good girl, the perfect girl… To finding your way home to your authenticity, power, and truth, and the freedom to FINALLY be authentically & unapologetically you! Learn more about Monique here: https://www.moniquecarmela.com/ Submit your questions to info@moniquecarmela.com

Recent Episodes

151: The Healing Journey: Creating Safety, Embracing Authenticity and Inner Growth with Victoria Bowman
MAR 9, 2025
151: The Healing Journey: Creating Safety, Embracing Authenticity and Inner Growth with Victoria Bowman

In this episode, Monique talks with Victoria Bowman about her transformative journey from founding 'Owaken Breathwork' to undertaking profound personal healing and growth.

The conversation delves into Victoria's transition from traditional community development and philanthropy to coaching and breathwork, exploring her decision to step away from her professional success to confront deep-seated feelings of unworthiness.

Moniqu shares her experiences working with Victoria, discussing the challenges and revelations from confronting internalized beliefs about worthiness, safety, and success.

Together, they emphasize the importance of seeking genuine alignment with one's heart desires, embracing the full spectrum of emotions, and finding support in community and professional containers. This episode sheds light on the deep inner work required for authentic transformation and the role of this work in creating a meaningful and connected life.


Connect with Victoria

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/victoria_bauman/

Website: https://www.victoriabauman.com/


Connect with Monique

Instagram | Facebook

Website: https://www.moniquecarmela.com/


Timestamps

00:00 Introduction and Guest Background

02:06 Victoria's Early Journey and Awakening

05:04 The Turning Point: Stepping Away from Success

06:46 Embracing Vulnerability and Inner Work

07:37 Discovering the Truth of Self-Worth

10:30 The Process of Unraveling and Rebirth

11:03 Monique's Reflection on Her Own Journey

21:48 The Power of Presence and Safety

28:30 The Courage to Let Go and Embrace Change

33:57 Witness Consciousness and Humor in Illusion

35:18 The Concept of Life Testing Us

35:55 Invitation to Embodiment and Love

37:45 Navigating Discomfort and Growth

40:14 Playfulness in Healing Work

43:34 The Importance of Supportive Spaces

51:27 Desires and True Freedom

56:38 Aligning with Heart's Desires

59:39 Embracing Feminine Energy and Connection

01:00:44 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

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64 MIN
150: The 10 Good Girl Conditioning Programs, Embracing Your Sexuality, Feminine Power & Magnetism w Alex Harvey
DEC 25, 2024
150: The 10 Good Girl Conditioning Programs, Embracing Your Sexuality, Feminine Power & Magnetism w Alex Harvey
In this episode of the Good Girl Unleashed podcast, host Monique welcomes Alex Harvey, a coach dedicated to helping women live authentically and embrace their true nature.   The conversation dives deep into the concept of 'good girl conditioning'—a set of societal programs that restrict women from expressing their true selves and achieving their full potential.   Alex outlines ten key conditioning programs that often impede women's empowerment, ranging from beliefs around sexuality and attractiveness to the notion that success must come through struggle.   Both Monique and Alex share personal anecdotes and insights on overcoming these limiting beliefs through acceptance, self-awareness, and the transformative power of sexuality and sensuality.   They also discuss the broader implications of these conditioning programs on various aspects of life, including business, relationships, and personal growth.   Additionally, Alex introduces her upcoming offerings, including a Sex Magic Ritual system and a comprehensive 12-month curriculum designed to help women harness their innate power and creativity.   This episode is a profound exploration of the journey towards self-liberation and living from a place of true authenticity.   Timestamps 00:00 Welcome to the Good Girl Unleashed Podcast 00:53 Introducing Alex Harvey: Empowering Women 03:03 Understanding Good Girl Conditioning 06:55 Generational Impact and Personal Stories 13:26 Sexuality and Personal Transformation 22:12 Embracing All Aspects of Self 38:40 Understanding Psychological Threats 39:13 Embracing Fear and Vulnerability 41:10 Manifestation and the Power of Subconscious 44:08 The Role of Tension in Manifestation 46:34 The Truth Behind Positive Thinking 48:19 Embracing Pain for Transformation 56:04 Good Girl Conditioning Programs 01:05:10 Upcoming Programs and Offerings 01:08:44 Final Thoughts and Encouragement   Alex Harvey is a transformational coach who empowers women to break free from societal expectations, unleash their creativity, and align with their soul’s purpose. Through her workshops, retreats like Creatrix Bali Retreat, and coaching programs, Alex combines neuroscience, Tantra, and intuition to help women manifest with ease and step into their full power. IG: https://www.instagram.com/alexh.co/   Resources / Other Links Listen to Alex's Podcast Episode:Break Free From Good Girl Conditions: The 10 Programs  The Sacred Art of Loving Yourself with Monique Carmela Learn more about working with Monique: Work with Monique   Subscribe to be notified of upcoming episodes, leave a 5-star review, and share with someone who you feel would benefit from receiving this message, this helps us support more women on their journey home to their authentic selves and fullest expression.
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73 MIN
149: Day 3 of Opening To Deeper Intimacy: Polarity, Intimacy & Human Design; How Separateness Supports Togetherness
DEC 18, 2024
149: Day 3 of Opening To Deeper Intimacy: Polarity, Intimacy & Human Design; How Separateness Supports Togetherness
Unlocking Deeper Intimacy: Human Design, Slowness, and Embodiment Practices   Join us for Day 3 of the Opening To Deeper Intimacy Masterclass with Monique Carmela   Day 3: Polarity & Intimacy, & Human Design ✹Exploring the need/desire for togetherness and separateness and how separateness is what allows for closeness ✹What is Human Design and how it can support you understand yourself and those you are in relationship with more deeply, offering awareness, understanding, and supporting harmony, connection and intimacy. ✹Guided Embodiment Practice: Your Heart's Desire, connecting to your deepest desire and bringing this desire to life REGISTER FOR THE MASTERCLASS HERE: https://embodiedlove.moniquecarmela.com/intimacy     In the final session on deepening intimacy, Monique starts with a 'drop-in' exercise to help shift from mental activity to a receptive state. This practice aims to engage participants more profoundly with the upcoming material, which is rich in energy and wisdom.   The discussion covers the journey of understanding intimacy, emphasizing the importance of present moment awareness and the pitfalls of always striving to reach a future goal.   The importance of slowness is highlighted as a key to both productivity and experiencing deeper intimacy, especially in sexual and emotional connections.   The conversation shifts to the significance of alone time for self-intimacy and how knowing one's human design can enhance relationships. Practical advice is offered on balancing alone time and togetherness to foster deeper intimacy.   Insights on managing energy dynamics within relationships, particularly through the lens of human design, are shared. Additional resources and opportunities for deeper exploration through courses and one-on-one sessions are mentioned. The session concludes with an embodiment practice to integrate the teachings.     Timestamps 00:00 Introduction and Opening Drop-In 01:56 The Importance of Being Present 04:37 Connecting with Your Current State 06:57 Embracing Calmness and Acceptance 09:06 The Power of Slowing Down 15:30 Understanding Human Design 18:14 Healing Through Relationships 22:51 Exploring Intimacy and Emotions 25:59 Exploring Deeper Intimacy 26:19 The Importance of Alone Time 26:58 Human Design and Energy Dynamics 29:04 Navigating Relationship Dynamics 29:45 Tools for Self-Intimacy and Healing 31:12 The Role of Community and Support 32:07 Balancing Alone Time and Togetherness 34:21 Understanding Human Design 44:03 Practical Applications of Human Design 49:27 Invitation to Deeper Work 52:27 Embodiment Practice     Resources / Other Links The Sacred Art of Loving Yourself Learn more about working with Monique: Work with Monique   Subscribe to be notified of upcoming episodes, leave a 5-star review, and share with someone who you feel would benefit from receiving this message, this helps us support more women on their journey home to their authentic selves and fullest expression.
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57 MIN
148: Day 2 of Opening To Deeper Intimacy: Fears & Energetic Blocks Keeping You Stuck & How To Access Deeper Intimacy
DEC 17, 2024
148: Day 2 of Opening To Deeper Intimacy: Fears & Energetic Blocks Keeping You Stuck & How To Access Deeper Intimacy
How to overcome fears, challenges and energetic blocks so that you can ACCESS Deeper Intimacy NOW   Join us for Day 2 of the Opening To Deeper Intimacy Masterclass with Monique Carmela   Day 2: Fear of Change / Fear of Intimacy ✹Exploring common fears, deeply ingrained belief systems and patterns, and energetic blocks that keep people stuck in their relationships and prevent deeper intimacy and connection ✹How to overcome these challenges so that you can feel secure within yourself, feeling safe is the key to deeper intimacy ✹Guided Embodiment Practice: Cultivating Inner Safety, supporting you to release what's holding you back from deeper intimacy REGISTER FOR THE MASTERCLASS HERE: https://embodiedlove.moniquecarmela.com/intimacy   In this episode of the Good Girl Unleashed podcast, the focus is on addressing fears and energetic blocks that prevent deeper intimacy.   You will be guided through breathing exercises and encouraged to connect with your bodily sensations to increase your capacity for intimacy, pleasure, and connection.   Key concepts include the importance of expanding one's capacity to feel, dealing with triggers, and the significance of strong foundations for deeper connection.   The episode also discusses overcoming self-worth issues, fear of rejection, and protective mechanisms. Monique shares personal experiences and strategies for cultivating self-love and intimacy.   The episode concludes with an invitation to join the Sacred Art of Loving Yourself program for a deeper journey towards self-acceptance and transformation.   Timestamps 00:00 Welcome to the Good Girl Unleashed Podcast 00:37 Day Two: Opening to Deeper Intimacy 01:27 Foundations of Self-Intimacy 03:13 Expanding Capacity to Feel 05:25 Common Fears and Energetic Blocks 09:28 The Power of Awareness 11:24 Navigating Intimacy Challenges 16:52 Protective Mechanisms and Self-Worth 22:53 Fear of Intimacy and Change 28:49 Invitation to Deeper Work 31:45 Challenging Learned Beliefs 32:18 Cultivating Inner Safety 34:11 Navigating the Fear of Change 35:17 Self-Sabotage and Protection 36:26 Recalibrating Neural Pathways 38:55 Building Strong Foundations 42:05 Practicing Self-Honoring 46:05 Understanding Emotional Triggers 51:19 Embracing Unique Experiences 54:12 Masterclass Conclusion and Offers   Resources / Other Links Intimacy Masterclass The Sacred Art of Loving Yourself Work with Monique   Subscribe to be notified of upcoming episodes, leave a 5-star review, and share with someone who you feel would benefit from receiving this message, this helps us support more women on their journey home to their authentic selves and fullest expression.
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60 MIN
147: DAY 1 of Opening to Deeper Intimacy: Embracing Your Authentic Self, The Key To Deep Connection, Love & EXQUISITE Intimacy
DEC 16, 2024
147: DAY 1 of Opening to Deeper Intimacy: Embracing Your Authentic Self, The Key To Deep Connection, Love & EXQUISITE Intimacy
The Key To Deep Connection, Great Love & EXQUISITE Intimacy   Join us for Day 1 of the Opening To Deeper Intimacy Masterclass with Monique Carmela   Day 1: Journey Back To Self ✹Exploring how coming back to self and embodying your authentic self is ACTUALLY what sets the foundations and allows you access deeper intimacy in your relationships ✹What triggers are revealing to you and how to navigate triggers and conflict effectively allowing you to remain open and connected in your relationships ✹ Guided Embodiment Practice: Journey Back To Self, understanding what holds you back in intimacy and how to open up to deeper intimacy within yourself - ONLY AVAILABLE TO MASTERCLASS REGISTRANTS   REGISTER FOR THE MASTERCLASS HERE     In this episode of the Good Girl Unleashed podcast, host Monique Carmela guides listeners through an exploration of connecting to their authentic selves to cultivate deeper intimacy and personal power.   Monique shares her journey of overcoming struggles with intimacy, self-expression, and emotional vulnerability.   The episode includes reflections on why we often resist receiving and opening up due to past wounds and traumas, and the importance of self-compassion and embodiment practices.   Listeners are encouraged to engage in self-exploration, set intentions, and participate in a masterclass for deeper learning and transformation.   The session includes a foundational teaching on observing one's internal landscape and how it manifests in relationships and external experiences.     Timestamps 00:37 Setting the Space for Deeper Intimacy 02:27 The Journey of Receiving and Vulnerability 03:59 Breath and Embodiment Practices 06:55 Introduction to the Masterclass 10:52 Personal Journey and Insights 13:48 The Importance of Self-Intimacy 22:52 Navigating Relationship Challenges 24:59 The Power of Inner Work 34:41 Awareness and Transformation 35:01 Awareness and Resonance 35:42 Deepening Self-Intimacy 37:28 Embracing All Emotions 39:15 Authentic Self-Embodiment 50:29 Navigating Triggers and Conflict 59:26 Final Thoughts and Next Steps     Resources / Other Links Intimacy Masterclass The Sacred Art of Loving Yourself Work with Monique   Subscribe to be notified of upcoming episodes, leave a 5-star review, and share with someone who you feel would benefit from receiving this message, this helps us support more women on their journey home to their authentic selves and fullest expression.
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64 MIN