The Lighter Mind
The Lighter Mind

The Lighter Mind

Kyle Thistlethwaite with Chris "Cro" Schutz and Alan Stiles

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In The Lighter Mind we explore spirituality, personal growth, trauma, recovery and the path to wholeness. Contact us at [email protected]

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The Lighter Mind: Overcoming Ambivalence, The Journey of Transformation and Authenticity
APR 20, 2026
The Lighter Mind: Overcoming Ambivalence, The Journey of Transformation and Authenticity
<p>In this episode, Kyle, Cro, and Alan explore the deep challenges of change, highlighting the pivotal moments when we decide to fully commit to transformation. They discuss the inner struggles, fears, and societal pressures that hinder authenticity and delve into practical insights from recovery, Stoicism, and personal growth.</p><p><strong>Main Topics &amp; Insights:</strong></p><ul><li>The critical moment when it’s “too late” to go back and the decision to move forward</li><li>The inner tug-of-war of ambivalence in addiction, recovery, and life changes</li><li>The importance of radical honesty and ownership in personal transformation</li><li>How fear and safety influence decision-making and the role of courage</li><li>The concept of “bargaining, compromising, and justifying” as barriers to authenticity</li><li>The significance of living in the gray area and embracing vulnerability</li><li>Practical ways to develop discernment, awareness, and resilience</li><li>The impact of societal pressures on authenticity and mental health</li><li>The power of service and giving as a pathway to self-awareness</li><li>Gratitude and appreciation for life's simple beauties and supportive communities</li></ul><p><strong>Resources &amp; Links:</strong></p><ul><li><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://riverside.com/dashboard/studios/kyle-thistlethwaites-studio/projects/amazon.com/dp/B075JF8D7N">The Courage to Be Disliked by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga</a></li><li><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marcus_Aurelius">Stoic Philosophy - Marcus Aurelius</a></li><li><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://brenebrown.com/">Brene Brown's Work on Vulnerability and Courage</a></li><li><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://riverside.com/dashboard/studios/kyle-thistlethwaites-studio/projects/amazon.com/dp/B007XJRJPU">Rich Dad Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki</a></li><li><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alfred_Adler">Albert Adler’s Psychology — Understanding Childhood Patterns</a></li><li><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.trcp.org/2011/01/18/it-is-not-the-critic-who-counts/">The Man in the Arena — Theodore Roosevelt</a></li></ul><p><strong>Connect with the Hosts:</strong></p><ul><li>Kyle Thistlethwaite: <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/kylethistle/">Instagram</a></li><li>Alan Stiles: <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/alan_k_stiles/">Instagram</a></li></ul><p><strong>Note:</strong> This episode is rich with personal stories, philosophical insights, and actionable tips to navigate life’s transitions with authenticity and bravery. Tune in to challenge your perceptions, embrace vulnerability, and step into your fullest potential.</p>
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72 MIN
The Lighter Mind: Our "Claim Your Power" (Mastin Kipp) Fail and Why We Stopped. +More!
MAR 30, 2026
The Lighter Mind: Our "Claim Your Power" (Mastin Kipp) Fail and Why We Stopped. +More!
<p><strong>Summary</strong></p><p>In this episode of the Lighter Mind Podcast, Kyle, Alan, Cro and McRae delve into their personal journeys of healing and recovery, discussing the impact of trauma, spirituality, and self-acceptance. </p><p>They explore the challenges of navigating trauma work, the importance of understanding different types of trauma, and critique various approaches to healing, particularly in the context of addiction recovery. The conversation highlights the diverse experiences of each participant and their unique perspectives on the healing process. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of trauma, recovery, and personal growth. They discuss the varying effectiveness of therapy, the importance of self-reflection, and the distinction between different types of trauma. </p><p>The dialogue also touches on spirituality, the role of literature in recovery, and the significance of finding purpose in life. Throughout the discussion, they emphasize the need for appropriate support and the personal nature of recovery journeys. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the nature of awareness, the relationship between pain and emotion, and the importance of curiosity in managing pain. </p><p>They explore various healing modalities, including cranial sacral therapy and the emotional release that can occur through physical work. The discussion also touches on the search for meaning in life and the acceptance of uncertainty as a path to personal growth. </p><p>In this conversation, the participants explore themes of personal growth, the importance of male connection, and the need for safe spaces for men to discuss their experiences. They reflect on their survival patterns, the significance of honesty and accountability among friends, and the responsibility each individual has for their own life. Gratitude is expressed for the connections formed through shared experiences, highlighting the value of community and support in personal development.</p><p><strong>Takeaways</strong></p><p>Alan shares his journey of healing through trauma work.</p><p>Cro discusses his decade-long sobriety journey and self-discovery.</p><p>The importance of spirituality in recovery is emphasized.</p><p>Participants reflect on their experiences with trauma and self-acceptance.</p><p>Critiques of trauma approaches highlight potential risks for early recovery individuals.</p><p>The conversation reveals personal biases and perspectives on healing.</p><p>Understanding different types of trauma is crucial for effective healing.</p><p>The impact of early recovery on trauma work is discussed.</p><p>Participants acknowledge the need for individualized healing journeys.</p><p>The role of community and connection in the healing process is explored. Your experience in recovery may not be the target audience for some self-help books.</p><p>Trauma work is essential for personal growth and understanding oneself.</p><p>There is a distinction between big T and little t traumas, but both affect us similarly.</p><p>Not all recovery literature is suitable for everyone, especially those in early recovery.</p><p>Spirituality can evolve from a religious experience to a more personal understanding of self.</p><p>Pain can be a visitor that we should welcome and understand.</p><p>Curiosity about pain can change our relationship with it.</p><p>Emotional release is often tied to physical pain.</p><p>The journey of self-discovery often involves uncertainty.</p><p>Everyone needs a moment of catharsis or ego death.</p><p>Mindfulness can help us embrace uncertainty in life.</p><p>Finding peace often comes from accepting what we cannot control. </p><p>Personal growth often involves revisiting difficult material.</p><p>The importance of male connection cannot be overstated.</p><p>Honesty among friends fosters accountability.</p><p>Taking responsibility is crucial for personal growth.</p><p>Shared experiences can deepen connections.</p><p></p><p></p>
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109 MIN
The Lighter Mind: - The Tightrope of Mindfulness, Living in the Moment and Future Planning
MAR 24, 2026
The Lighter Mind: - The Tightrope of Mindfulness, Living in the Moment and Future Planning
<p>In this engaging panel, the hosts explore the delicate balance between mindfulness, goal-setting, and planning for the future. They share personal stories, insights on living in the moment, and strategies for managing anxiety and expectations.</p><p><strong>key topics</strong></p><p>Balancing mindfulness and future planning</p><p>Managing anxiety and expectations</p><p>Strategies for living in the present while preparing for the future</p><p><strong> resources</strong></p><p>The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle - <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://amzn.to/4rWoHNZ">Buy Here</a></p><p>The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson - <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B078G9V4X4">https://www.amazon.com/dp/B078G9V4X4</a></p><p>Mindfulness Meditation Techniques - <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.mindful.org/meditation/mindfulness-getting-started/">https://www.mindful.org/meditation/mindfulness-getting-started/</a></p><p>The Hero's Journey by Joseph Campbell - <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://amzn.to/4uQnKcA">Buy Here</a></p><p>The Science of Happiness Podcast - <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.ted.com/podcasts/the_science_of_happiness">https://www.ted.com/podcasts/the_science_of_happiness</a></p><p></p>
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The Lighter Mind: S3E10 - Stoicism in Everyday Life
FEB 22, 2026
The Lighter Mind: S3E10 - Stoicism in Everyday Life
<p>This episode explores the profound principles of stoicism, its relevance in recovery, and how it can help us manage control, acceptance, and inner peace. Join us as we delve into ancient philosophies and practical applications for modern life.</p><p>Key topics:</p><p>History and principles of Stoicism</p><p>Control and acceptance in recovery</p><p>Mindfulness and emotional regulation</p><p>The role of purpose and 'why' in life</p><p>The connection between ancient philosophy and modern mental health</p><p>Resources:</p><p>The Daily Stoic - <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://dailystoic.com/">https://dailystoic.com/</a></p><p>Ryan Holiday's Books - <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B007LUHFH8?_encoding=UTF8&amp;ref_=aufs_ap_ahdr_dsk_ah&amp;pd_rd_w=uTRCk&amp;content-id=amzn1.sym.7e190e19-9f6f-4df8-807a-5a7608594741&amp;pf_rd_p=7e190e19-9f6f-4df8-807a-5a7608594741&amp;pf_rd_r=140-3572560-6762350&amp;pd_rd_wg=PQ3q5&amp;pd_rd_r=003c7d75-e679-4168-88db-d1c165f84685&amp;ccs_id=80ad9d6b-e171-4b4e-8e66-f1d921db23e5">https://www.amazon.com/s?k=ryan+holiday&amp;ref=nb_sb_noss_2</a></p><p>Meditation and Mindfulness Apps - <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.headspace.com/">https://www.headspace.com/</a></p><p>Stoic Philosophy by Marcus Aurelius - <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://amzn.to/4b4uyv6">https://amzn.to/4b4uyv6</a></p><p>The Serenity Prayer - <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Serenity_Prayer">https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Serenity_Prayer</a></p><p></p>
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87 MIN